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Was he wrong in not having time for me, his wife? Yes he was. Was he wrong in telling me to sort myself out? Yes he was. But would that have made any difference to the problem at hand? Would knowing that he was wrong solve anything? I had to do something, I could not wait for him to change... and so I changed.

The great thing about changing oneself is that those around you feel exposed in their fixed way of thinking. They feel bad for being the only ones who did not change for a good cause. When I changed the way I dealt with my husband, he changed the way he dealt with me. If he was too busy, I'd be too busy too, as if I had not missed him the whole day... and then suddenly, he was the one feeling left out... and in feeling left out, he'd come to me just like I had come to him a thousand times before. When he saw a change in me from being a needy wife to a mature woman, he fell right where I wanted him to...

It's funny because I wasn't needy before our wedding day. He would be the one calling me, sending me love letters, cute love messages, and flowers. I was over the moon but I remember making an effort not to show it... and then after one year of marriage, I was showing it too much... he obviously grew tired of it. Now that I think of it... how immature of me!

Through prayer and through changing my way of thinking and seeing things, my husband changed. Each passing year, we're more in love... closer, more alike, more attached.

In faith,

Cristiane Cardoso

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Written by djscorpio6673 WRITTENON Saturday, 20 February 2010

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I disagree with you 100%! The women of today are ruined. They choose the wrong men, they're picky choosy, they lie to men for no reason, when women get tired of men they turn into lesbians, they're thieves, brainless jellyheads, black women gotten more strong minded, more aggressive, politically incorrect baby makers. It's sad. How is God now decided to protect women now from men? That don't make no sense. Women of today are crucifying men everyday because they're too needy, they have this screw you it's all about me mentality. Come on now. Are you serious? This world is corrupt for centuries. Ask God why he turned his back on America? Ask God why he turned his back on the world? Give me a break. What? I disagree. Otherwise I would of been married a long time ago and I blame Satan because he should of mind his business when God created women! I blame Satan because he ruined God's people! I blame Satan because he was supposed to be dead! Dead to humans like you and me!
Dead to the world! Dead to America! Satan was supposed to be dead! Why God let Satan live! WHY!
That's why these women of today are acting like idiots!
That's why these women of today are acting like men!
Because they're ruined by Pop Culture, Hip Hop Culture,
The sex revolution, People who are assholes by nature excuse my spanish. I can't take it anymore! Women of today must change back to what they was born as. Beautiful, sweet, innocent, additude free, polite, yes sir,
a good woman to be with for the rest of. 2010, What happened? How is God gonna change the world back to what it used to be? How is God gonna change women back to themselves? Yeah right! God ain't gonna do nothing but leave planet earth alone. Why save it now?