Men and women were created to be each other’s partners. When God created the woman, He ensured that she was His last creation so that the man could see she was unique. In other words, it was for him to value her. But, unfortunately, that didn’t happen.

I will mention 3 main actions causing a separation between men and women. See if this is not happening to you concerning the opposite sex:

1 – Competition

Men and women have become competitors in their marriage; often, the husband is unsatisfied with the woman’s success. If the woman is a little more successful than he is, he wants to be better than her and vice versa. Often, the woman sees her husband’s success and does not accept to stay in a position of support below him. She wants to be as successful in her career financially as he is, and she doesn’t take to staying in a support position.

This has caused a severe problem in relationships. Marriage should be the union of two people, two forces, two pockets, two accounts, the union of all this, one rooting for the other. Therefore, if one is well, the other is also well because the two are one. But today, this has yet to be the case in many marriages. What should be a partnership has become a competition.

Many marriages have ended because of this. So, instead of competition, think about a partnership; join forces instead of competing.

2 – Indifference

Indifference is one of the most poisonous things because while you are in the first problem (competition), seeing the other as a competitor, you are at least paying attention to them in everything they do. Indifference is the opposite; you want to eliminate that person from your life. And how many women today treat men with indifference? “I don’t need a man” is a phrase in many women’s mouths.

And how many men also treat women with indifference? “There are more women out there”, “if you are not happy, leave”, “there are many women in this world”, “many women would like to be with me”, etc. And this indifference is one of the things that hurts the most.

Sometimes the person lives inside the same house and ignores the other. The husband ignores his wife, ignores what she says, her opinion does not count, and her tastes and desires are annoyances, so he lives his life ignoring his wife and thinking: “Oh, she will adapt; if I ignore her enough, she will end up accepting”. And this has also been a great poison in relationships.

3 – Adversarial

The person begins to look at the opposite sex as an enemy. So, it’s no longer indifference; it’s hostility. The woman looks at the man and says: “Men are no good”, “Men just want to use you”. Men look at women and say: “Women only want money”, “Women just want to take advantage, deceive”, etc.

So, people who have been hurt by previous relationships have held this position of hostility.

How can this be solved? Check out the answer in the video above.