Good morning Renato and Cristiane!

I would like to know how to deal with something in regards to my husband. I love your TV show. I’ve read the books “Bullet-proof Marriage” and “The V-Woman,” but I just haven’t been able to get my husband to read it with me or watch the programs out of his own freewill, and I end up getting upset with him. He’s a wonderful husband, but there’s always room for improvement, right? I tell him straight forward: I don’t know what our marriage would be like if it wasn’t for what I’ve learned from them. Because of what I watch and pass on to him, my marriage has changed for the better. Whenever he comes home from work and sits on the couch I turn on the program and sit on his lap, then he watches quietly. But I would like to know how I can get him to watch the program without any pressure. Thanks in advance. You’ve both been a blessing that God put in our way. – Giovana

Giovana, in a few words:

Whether it’s the book that he reads, or the program that he sees.

It’s common for men to think that their relationship doesn’t need a book, a TV program, nor the advice of others. “If there’s a problem between us, I have the solution.” This is what most married men think. How do I know this? Because I used to be one of them. Normally, a man only wakes up to marriage problems when his wife shows up with the divorce papers.

But this doesn’t mean that all hope is lost. Instead of pressuring him to read the book or watch the programs you should be the book and the program. Let your behavior show him how good the book is. Practice what you read. Your change will be the book that he reads. Your new behavior will be the book he reads.

And just as you improved through reading the book and watching the Love School, he will improve watching you. His curiosity will be sparked, and then he’ll actually want to read the book and watch the programs.

Use this wisdom and you’ll see the results.

P.S. The Love School Cruise is quickly filling up. Who know maybe this cruise will be like the Noah’s ark for your relationship as it was for his family and all the couples on board? If God gives you a desire, then he gives you the power to participate. Reserve your cabin today.

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