A student recently wrote to us that she dated her husband for 4 years, but only after the marriage did she find out he was addicted to video games.

When I say that people no longer know what dating is, it’s for reasons like this. How can a person date for 4 years and not identify this very serious behaviour problem that the boyfriend has?

This happens because people treat dating as a kind of leisure, an opportunity to walk, go to the restaurant, to the movies, and enjoy moments together, instead of using the dating period for an expedition, a search, a journey to explore who the other person is and also let yourself be explored by the other person, in the sense of personality, goals, observation of behaviours, getting to know the family.

Check out the video and do your homework to avoid surprises like this.
ter husband, wife and human being.